The
divorce rate in America today is 50%. Couples start asking for divorce based on
problems that come up during their marriage. These problems were not planned to
be discussed before the marriage took place, so the marriage ends up resulting
in a divorce which harms everyone that is close to the couple. Divorce brings
out the worst in everyone. It affects the husband, the wife, the kids, and the
extended family. The kids may not want the divorce to take place which would
result in them acting more different than usual. The extended families could
love each other and it would cause difficulties to stay in touch during this
process. The separation could also cause psychological problems for the
husband, wife, and any possible children they share. There are a plethora of
reasons why a relationship may fail; however, it does not necessarily have to
do with the wife or the husband.
For
this unbelievably high divorce rate a solution needs to be proposed in hope
that more marriages will stay intact and there will be happiness, comfort,
stability, and most importantly, love that would last a lifetime. One solution
that would help lower the divorce rate among couples is premarital counseling. Premarital
counseling has shown that it helps couples deal with problems that would most
likely come up during the marriage, and it has shown that it gives them an
understanding on how to deal with each other. There has been research done on
the results of premarital counseling and how it benefits the couple. If more
couples gave premarital counseling a chance, the divorce rate would not be as
high and more couples would be happy with their marriage.
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